The ABC’s of Catching Zzz’s

Schools here in Texas started back this last week.

And the beginning of a new school year often means the end to nightly Netflix binges and my midnight rendezvous with my brother…I mean Brother…sewing machine. Looking ahead to the holidays, I have so many Christmas quilts and decorations that I want to get made between now and Christmas…the most wonderful time of the year.

So how do I convince myself and my family that going to bed before midnight is actually an attainable goal…we’ve had so many marvelous midnight matinees lately.

Especially when as a mother, I know that sleep is too important of a part of a healthy lifestyle and overall well-being to simply be ignored.

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One priority that I’ve set for this back-to-school transition is to create sleep-friendly environments for both my son and myself.

Supposedly sleep-friendly environments help you fall asleep more quickly and stay asleep more soundly…(at least until you’re about 50 and have to join in with the other “older adults” enjoying the nightly potty parade)…

A good sleep environment is built on a foundation that we more commonly refer to as a “mattress.” Mattresses are one household purchase that I would never recommend that you skimp on.

Kinda like skimping on shoes or chairs…

There is no “perfect” mattress that would be perfect for everyone. There are too many factors to consider sleep position, age, activity level, body mechanics, body type and sleep position.

In addition to the mattress itself, there are plenty of marvelous mattress toppers available that can help further the comfort of your “chosen frozen” mattress.

Also don’t skimp on bedding. Find the bedding fabric – cotton, linen, bamboo – that you like best.

As for the pillows, take sleeping position into consideration. People who sleep on their stomachs typically prefer thinner pillows than those who sleep on their sides.

It would be easy to get overwhelmed with all of the different pillows that you could consider purchasing – body pillows, contoured pillows that eliminate neck strain wedge pillows that help with sleep apnea and basic snoring.

Just don’t have so many pillows that there’s no longer room for the family dog…

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I’ve heard it said that the messiest children typically turn into the neatest and tidiest adults. If that were true, then my whole house would be immaculate.

Don’t worry…I’m not going to check to see how much stuff is hiding beneath your bed.

But do try to keep your sleep environment neat and distraction free.

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Otherwise, you may feel obligated to get back up and clean your room first.

We’ve all heard about the damages of blue light from electronics and been told countless times to avoid screens – TV, phone, tablet, computer – for at least 30 minutes before going to bed.

But my one big word of advice is…

Never set up a TV in your bedroom. Save the bedroom for sleep and…well, never mind…Essential oils: Just as a house without a piano and KitchenAid mixer is simply not a home, a bedroom without a Pura with a vanilla refill is simply not a retreat.

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Essential oils: Just as a house without a piano and KitchenAid mixer is simply not a home, a bedroom without a Pura with a vanilla refill is simply not a retreat.

A meticulously arranged still life of antique cat-themed artifacts on a dark, polished mahogany writing desk, captured in rich photographic realism. At the center rests an ornate brass cat figurine with emerald-glass eyes, its surface softly worn with age. Around it, a slightly yellowed Art Deco theater program titled “The Cat’s Pajamas,” a 1920s silk bow tie with subtle paisley, and a cracked leather-bound history book opened to an engraved illustration of a grand ballroom. Warm lamplight from an unseen green-glass banker’s lamp casts a golden glow, creating gentle reflections on the desk and deep, refined shadows. Shot at eye level with a shallow depth of field, the background fades into velvety darkness, evoking a sophisticated, nostalgic mood, like a historian’s private study at midnight.

LED lights, just like the blue light from electronics, can work against melatonin production and make falling asleep harder. Opt to dimmer, warmer-color bulbs. Keep wattage low.

Also, many people find that they sleep better in a pitch black dark room.

I haven’t reached the point where I’ve adult-ed so much that I’m no longer afraid of the dark or no longer reliant on my teddy bear.

But even scaredy-cats like me can opt for black-out curtains and consider wearing a sleep mask.

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Noise: Do whatever it takes to keep noise levels down. This could mean anything from earplugs to soundproofing tiles and thicker doors and windows…and possibly even turning off that TV that you said that you weren’t going to let back in the room to begin with.

Temperature: Doctors repeatedly recommend having the thermostat set between 60 and 67 degrees. This temperature reinforces the natural core body temperature.

Dare to Hug Your Bear

Teddy bears can be your best companion while you are growing up…

But once you start adulting, are you supposed to simply toss your precious Theodore aside and handle life totally on your own?!

Well, obviously, that’s up to you…

But as for myself, I’m hanging on tight to my beloved BlueBonnet and will continue sleeping with her just as long as I want…with no feelings of guilt or shame.

Actually, there are several benefits to cuddling up with your favorite plush friend for just as long as possible.

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Companionship: Teddy bears can help alleviate feelings of loneliness, Teddy bears offer a sense of companionship that can help you feel more comfortable around other people also.

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Relaxation: Teddy bears are one option in creating a more comfortable and positive sleeping environment. After all, aren’t we all looking for anything and everything to help us fall asleep faster and more easily…

Nightly bedtime routines can make a huge difference in the quality of your sleep. Stuffed animals can often be a perfectly normal and healthy part of that all-important, calming nightly bedtime routine (more on this later)…

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Stress Management: Just having a stuffed animal that is a familiar presence can be a source of comfort and security in this crazy, stressful world…. especially if you’ve had that stuffed animal for a while (or like me, since birth)…

Stuffed animals can help your body hormones – serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin – that promote relaxation and help reduce stress.

Stuffed animals are often used as a resource for working with individuals suffering from autism or insomnia. They have the ability to provide a soothing presence during challenging moments.

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Transition: Finally, teddy bears and other stuffed animals can bring back positive childhood emotions and memories…and help bridge that gap between childhood memories and adult life.

So don’t leave your favorite stuffed animals at your mom’s house for the next 40 years…or allow it to hibernate in your attic forever.

It needs a good hug…

And most likely you do too…